Not every love story fits inside the legal framework of marriage. Some partnerships thrive outside it, by choice or circumstance. Commitment ceremonies honor these relationships with the same reverence, joy, and intentionality as any wedding—without the paperwork.
Whether you're marking a milestone, renewing your vows, or simply declaring your devotion in front of your community, I’m here to help you craft a ceremony that reflects your truth.
Who Are Commitment Ceremonies For?
Partners who choose not to marry legally but want to celebrate their bond
Polyamorous or nontraditional relationship structures
Long-term companions, chosen family, or spiritual unions
Renewal of vows or recommitment after a life transition
Anyone who wants to say “I choose you” in a way that feels sacred and seen
How I Support You:
As an ordained minister and seasoned event director, I bring both heart and structure to your ceremony. Here’s what I offer:
Ceremony Design
Collaborative planning to shape the tone, flow, and symbolism
Ritual suggestions (handfasting, candle lighting, shared vows, etc.)
Inclusive language and frameworks that honor your identities and values
Vow Coaching & Script Support
Help writing or refining personal vows
Custom ceremony scripts that reflect your story
Optional readings, blessings, or community participation
Logistical Clarity
Timeline planning and coordination with your venue or team
Accessibility and consent considerations for guests
Printable ceremony outline or cue sheet for smooth execution
Emotional Presence
Grounded, affirming officiation that centers your connection
Gentle guidance through nerves, transitions, or unexpected moments
A warm, steady presence who sees and celebrates you fully
Ready to Begin?
I offer free consultations to explore your vision and see if we’re a good fit. My availability is typically weekday evenings (4–9pm), with flexibility for ceremony dates.
Let’s co-create something beautiful.
Because love—in all its forms—deserves to be witnessed.
Please see the "Contact Me" section on ways to get in touch.